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  • Broken bodies and hopeful hearts.

    I never planned on writing a piece like this. By God's grace, these words became a remedial response to his words of life. I hope it encourages whoever might be feeling pain in their life right now.

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    Just another normal day. The alarm goes off. The day’s tasks run through my mind like flight times on a departure board. Another minute in bed and tick, all the numbers flip. Later and later it delays. A growing anxiety begins to overtake the euphoria of slumber. In place of the joys of a good night’s sleep is a relentless and throbbing pain. Waves and waves. I remember now; it's the same pain I surrendered to last night as I prayed for the Nurofen nightcap to come into full effect.

    I’ve grown accustom to the spontaneity of illness. One night you go to bed with the expectation of being able and well to do your next day’s tasks. Then morning arrives, and your to-do list becomes suspended forever. Who knows how long this migraine might last? Will today bring crippling nausea? Who controls life, really? 

    In the past few months, the frequency dial has been turned up to eleven on migraines and other illnesses which keep me from being a productive member of society. I am truly grateful to live in an age where medical advancement allows me to rein in some of the pain. But often they do little to keep me from spiralling into a set of existential questions: Why are humans so finite? Who am I if I can’t do my everyday tasks? Why today (always the most important), of all days?

    It doesn’t matter where the pain originates. It will inevitably find a way to ricochet throughout my core, affecting the whole. In that moment, more questions: Can your pride afford the fall? What will people think if you bail, again? Do you really trust that God is who he says he is? Did God really say….?

    And then I run.

    I run to Genesis 1, 3. I hide in Psalm 13, 42. I follow in John. I am reassured in Romans 8. I rest in Revelation 22. So many truths resounding in God’s one voice. His revelation that he is our creator. His judgment on sin and the brokenness of this world. His love and solution displayed in Christ. His comfort turns my doubt into faith. His hope of restoration through Christ becomes my own. All the words are there. And they are living words.

    The Bible is not a self-help guide. It is so much more. In a world like ours, it must be more. In these last few months, it has become my life source, the voice of the one who gives us life in Christ.

    Don't get me wrong, pain still sucks. But pain without hope will crush even the strongest of us. 

    Disarming my pride, I am able to share with my community when I am sick. To show them what is really going on with me instead of brave facing through it. I need their care and their prayers. When I am weak, I need them to remind me to run to God. 

    I must confess that I am slow to run (both physically and spiritually). But I am grateful to be enjoying one minute of this life relatively pain-free and so embracing it by writing this reflection for when life becomes painful again.

    I know some courageous, meek and faithful men and women who live this life enduring much more intense pain and suffering. Often prolonged. Often without measure. Your response in running to God shows me the narrow path is possible, joyful and secure.

    And praise be to God that it is exactly that, because of Jesus.

     

  • We’re falling head over heels for something that ain’t real

    Who is Sigrid Solback Raabe? Once you watch the music video for her single Strangers you’ll never forget her dance moves. Winner of BBC Sound of 2018, Sigrid shares the honour roll with past winners such as HAIM, Sam Smith and Ellie Goulding. She also shares the honour roll of appearing on my Spotify playlist this week.

    The ear worm that it is, Strangers is a highly infectious electro pop tune. Pare back the synth beats, the acoustic version offers a beautiful yet raw diagnosis of what it feels like to live as a twenty one year old in 2018.

    Granted the song is largely about two strangers meeting in a club who pretend the other is ‘the one’, it is highly telling of the age in which you and I exist in. As we consume Netflix by the binge-load and scroll endlessly through the hundreds of other people’s narratives, has anyone stopped to ask whether we’re ‘falling head over heels for something that ain’t real’?

    After nearly thirty years on this earth, I have one key observation found true in the world around me and of myself. We are notoriously good at convincing ourselves something will fulfil all our hopes and expectations even when we know it won’t last forever. Like a stranger at a club who may just turn out to be our partner for life (yes, I’m sure it does happen but then divorce is also a thing). It’s like we can’t help but do it for survival reasons. More than ever, we are just an app away from finding ‘the one’ – whether it is a post, person, film or tune that can make our lives feel complete – just like in the movies. We want to play the fool when reality is too overwhelming to bear.

    And when you come home long after the credits roll, life resumes with an unchanging thud. The fall back to earth can be rough, you’ve been shown a glimpse of an alternative story. One with meaning and purpose. One with dignity and justice. One with potential and hope. We wish it would last forever.

    Maybe if there really is an alternative story which would make sense of our desires it would be worth breaking away from a system of wishful thinking. What is true. What is noble. What is pure. Those things would be worth falling for. Though Sigrid might not have intended it, Strangers is a wake up call in form of a highly infectious electro pop tune. The difference is in the acoustics of silence when the music stops. Where will you go to for truth?